apr. - I had an year-old recently begging me online to take his virginity, but I had to say, "I'm really sorry, that ain't going to happen." It creeped me out. Also, what's in it for me? If you're 18 and you haven't had sex before, you're probably going to last two and a half minutes. I'm not like a man who has this weird. apr. - Looking for a sugar mama isn't necessarily the way to go; Cougars aren't the type who have to pay for the company that they keep. Openly declaring your MILF fetish could turn a lot of older women off, they're interested in more than just sex, so be sure not to treat them like they're starring in a clichéd porn. When an older woman matches with you on Tinder, you can be pretty sure she's not looking to make you her future husband. And it's easier to lead the conversation into sex because you can bring up the fact that they're into younger guys and that you've never been with an older woman before. permalink.